Design your own comfort

Design your own comfort


Design your own comfort may feel absurd at the first hear as soon as the words from ear through brain reach inward eye of mind, it makes sense. In this modern and open every impossible or absurd idea happens to be realistic and common.

There might have been some times when you have felt something wrong or awkward in your persona despite of every surrounding being okay. Yet, there must be some genuine cause. Try to find it out. Was it the colour of your top or was it length of your bottoms or was it fittings of your inner wear or was it heel of your footwear or was it atmospheric changes? Or was it some one's rude behaviour towards you? Or was it work pressure? Or...

Whenever you feel discomfort, spare a few moments. Retire and try to trace the cause. If it relates to some external physical item, check it at once. Relax and resume your task. And if it relates to some internal emotional disturbance,

1) Make its picture clear in mind and then try to see its reverse side. You will get the positive thought from its reverse side.

2)If there some one's rude behaviour which has been hurting you, do not get upset but try to sympathise with his/her diseased psychology and forgive.

Remember - To forgive is Divine.

3) If it is someone else's fault or carelessness try to reminisce his/her strong points. Then call him/her. Remind him/her his/her those strong points and then come to the point of his weakness. Make him realize it intuitively. This behaviour of yours will surely improve one's carelessness and consequently your own comfort.

4) If it is your own egoist nature, try to reconsole it by imagining the situation keeping yourself in the other's place. It will give you an insight to understand the problem and its solution.

5) If it's someone else's ego which is the cause of your discomfort, try to communicate with him without hurting his ego.

Remember - Every one loves one's own ego. It is "I" only which can be changed by "my" will only.

6) Remember always - Goodness lies in your own eyes. If anyone deliberately tries to discomfort you, try to simply ignore him without making more fuss on it. Keep a distance and enjoy your life.



Essence of this blog is - Designs keep changing. you can design your own comfort according to your own emotions and perceptions and the need of the hour.

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Picture Reading

Many people have a God's-gift of reading pictures. I don't have one, but I want to learn it. Would you teach me? Please say something about this picture.      Pleeeeezeee!!!!!!

A Spark in The Dark

2 days back, I was gloomy with the thought of some inevitable disaster. The current floods in Haryana were to rushing towards our agricultural lands to vanish the hope of yield. Already it was to hot and humid. The frequent news of rising waters fuelled my worries. I thought how would it be possible to survive. I became restless and hiding from my hubby’s notice I left cooking and came to my bedroom. I flung myself on the bed like a corpse and gave a cry, then another louder cry with a gesture to lie unconscious. Coincidentally, a thought struck in my mind – What would become of my husband, who himself was passing through the same trauma? It would add to his worries when he would see me in this state. He might have, to hospitalize me, to spend money, to spend time on my care ignoring his farms etc…No. No. No……………………………….

Just then I jumped out of my bed feeling strong. I wiped off my sweat from all over the face and came back to the kitchen to resume cooking and leaving every tension in His hands.
                             I am thankful to the writer of the following vers: JoDaMango

Ray of Hope

When all about is black with gloom

And u feel is pending doom

.When your bones are raked with grim despair

When every breath is a gasp of air.

Keep on going, though u need to grope

For around the bend is ray of hope.